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What to text back when your friend says « you've changed since you two started dating »
Already decoded. Here's what they actually meant, the specific words doing the damage, and three replies ranked by what we'd send.
you've changed since you two started dating
What they actually meant
Half of this is probably true and half of it is your friend missing you. It lands as an attack because it skips straight past the part where they say they feel left behind.
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Replies you can send
Keep it calm
We'd send this onei think i've been less around and that's on me. i miss you too
Hold your ground
i've been happy, not different. but i hear that i've been distant
Change the game
let's fix the actual issue. dinner this week, just us
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