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How to text it

The text you've typed and deleted four times.

The hard ones — asking someone out, telling a friend they hurt you, calling in sick. Written badly, then written so you can send it.

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Crush

How to ask someone out over text

Ask someone out over text without giving them an easy escape route.

Crush

How to double text without being weird

Send a second text after no reply without sounding like you've been waiting.

Situationship

How to define the relationship over text

Ask what you actually are without sounding like an ultimatum.

Situationship

How to end a situationship over text

End something undefined cleanly, without a fight or a negotiation.

Bestie

How to tell a friend they hurt you over text

Tell a close friend they hurt you without starting a fight.

Bestie

How to say no to plans over text

Turn down plans without inventing an excuse or over-apologising.

Bestie

How to ask a friend for money back

Ask a friend to pay you back without making it awkward.

Roommate

How to text your roommate about cleaning

Bring up a cleaning problem without triggering a passive-aggressive war.

Roommate

How to ask your roommate to be quiet

Ask a roommate to keep it down without sounding like a landlord.

Parent

How to tell your parents you're not coming home

Tell your parents you're not coming home without a guilt spiral.

Parent

How to set a boundary with your parents over text

Ask a parent to stop bringing something up, without a blow-up.

Boss

How to text your boss you're sick

Call in sick without over-explaining or sounding guilty.

Boss

How to ask your boss for time off

Request time off as a plan rather than a favour.

Boss

How to say no to an extra shift

Say no to an extra shift without sounding like you're letting the team down.

Bestie

How to apologise over text without grovelling

Apologise properly without spiralling into six paragraphs.

Crush

How to text someone you ghosted

Reach out to someone you went quiet on, without a wall of excuses.