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- "hmu""HMU" literally means "hit me up," indicating a request for you to make contact with them.
- "mb"MB literally means 'maybe' or 'my bad,' used as a quick, informal abbreviation in texts.
- "ts"TS literally means "tough shit," an impolite interjection expressing a lack of sympathy or a dismissive attitude.
- "wyd"Wyd stands for "what you doing" or "what are you doing," commonly used as a casual inquiry about someone's current activity or status.
- "wsg"WSG literally means 'what's good,' a casual greeting asking how things are going or what's up.
- "nfs"NFS literally means 'not for sale,' indicating an item, idea, or event is unavailable or off-limits.
- "iykyk"IYKYK stands for 'If You Know, You Know,' implying a shared understanding or inside joke between people.
- "oomf"OOMF stands for "One Of My Followers," referring to a person the sender follows on social media platforms.
- "ong"ONG stands for "On God," an affirmation used to express strong agreement, truth, or a solemn promise.
- "wtv"Wtv is an acronym for "whatever," expressing indifference, lack of concern, or a dismissal of a topic or situation.
- "lmk"LMK literally means "let me know," indicating a request for information, confirmation, or a decision from you.
- "bbg"BBG is an acronym that literally stands for "baby girl," commonly used as an endearing term for a woman.
- "ttyl"TTYL is an acronym for "Talk To You Later," indicating a temporary pause or end to the current text conversation.
- "tbh"Tbh literally means "to be honest," often used to introduce a candid statement, a personal opinion, or a mild confession.
- "idk"IDK is an acronym for 'I don't know,' indicating a lack of information or a decision.
- "smh"SMH literally means 'shaking my head' and is an expression of disbelief, disappointment, or exasperation.
- "fr"fr literally means "for real," used to emphasize truth, agreement, or disbelief about something.
- "ily"ily is an acronym for “I love you,” commonly used in digital text communication.
- "fs"fs literally means "for sure," an informal affirmation used to express agreement or confirmation.
- "istg"ISTG literally means "I swear to God," used to emphasize strong feelings like frustration, disbelief, or conviction.
- "sm"sm literally means "so much," an acronym used in texting and online communication.
- "nvm"Nvm is an abbreviation for "never mind," commonly used to retract a previous statement or question.
- "ig"Ig is an abbreviation for "I guess," indicating reluctant agreement, mild indifference, or passive acceptance.
- "ofc"OFC literally means "of course," used to affirm something obvious, expected, or agreed upon without needing further explanation.
- "hbu"HBU literally means 'How about you?' or 'How 'bout you?', a common shorthand to turn a question back to the sender.
- "idc"IDC is an acronym for "I don't care," indicating indifference or a lack of concern about a specific topic.
- "ykwim"YKWIM stands for "you know what I mean," used to confirm shared understanding without needing to elaborate.
- "wby"WBY is an acronym for "what about you," a casual way to ask for someone's status, opinion, or activity.
- "nm"NM literally means "not much" or "never mind," used as a quick, casual response to a question or to retract a statement.
- "icl"ICL literally means 'I can't lie,' an internet slang acronym used to emphasize honesty or agreement.
- "atp"ATP literally means "at this point," used to express current feelings or a stage in a situation.
- "asl"ASL stands for Age, Sex, Location, an internet acronym asking for basic demographic info, especially in online chats.
- "sos""SOS" literally stands for "Save Our Souls," an international Morse code distress signal adopted for urgent pleas.
- "tws"TWS stands for 'true wireless stereo,' referring to earbuds that are completely cord-free and connect via Bluetooth.
- "srsly"Srsly is a common internet abbreviation for the word 'seriously,' used to emphasize a statement or question.
- "lyk"LYK is a text acronym literally meaning 'like you' or 'love you,' commonly used as a casual sign-off.
- "wdym"WDYM is an acronym meaning 'What Do You Mean?', used to ask for clarification or further explanation.
- "ttm"TTM literally means 'talk to me,' an acronym used in texts or online to invite further conversation.
- "ily2"ily2 (acronym): 'I love you too' is a common text abbreviation reciprocating affection previously expressed.
Dating & texting terms
The words people use for what's happening to you.
- "ick"Ick literally means a sudden, often irrational turn-off or feeling of disgust that makes a person less attractive.
- "love bombing"Love bombing is showering someone with excessive affection and attention to rapidly intensify a relationship.
- "situationship"A situationship is an undefined romantic or intimate relationship lacking commitment, clear labels, or a definite future.
- "breadcrumbing"Breadcrumbing literally means leaving tiny, enticing hints of interest to keep someone vaguely engaged without commitment.
- "beige flag"A 'beige flag' describes a personality trait or habit that is not good or bad, but simply makes you pause.
- "delulu"Delulu is slang derived from 'delusional,' meaning someone is holding onto unrealistic beliefs, often romantically.
- "orbiting"Orbiting literally means circling, and in dating refers to someone consistently viewing or engaging with your online content without direct interaction.
- "benching""Benching" means keeping a romantic interest on the sidelines, engaging just enough to maintain their interest without fully committing.
- "ghosting"Ghosting is literally disappearing from someone's life without explanation, ceasing all communication, like a ghost.
- "dry texting"Dry texting is when someone sends short, unenthusiastic messages that offer little to no conversational substance.
- "hard launch"To hard launch is to make a new relationship public on social media, often with clear photos and captions, confirming it's official.
- "double texting"Double texting is sending multiple consecutive messages before the other person has replied.
- "gaslighting"Gaslighting literally means changing someone's perception of reality; in texts, it's often accusing someone of making things up or being overly sensitive.
- "left on read"Left on read means a message was delivered and seen by the recipient but not responded to.
- "soft launch"A soft launch is when you subtly introduce a new relationship on social media without explicitly announcing it.
- "no contact""No contact" literally means ceasing all forms of communication and interaction with someone, often for personal well-being.
- "green flag"A green flag is a characteristic or behavior in a person that indicates they are a good, healthy, or desirable partner.
- "red flag"A red flag is a warning signal, something that suggests potential trouble or concern, often a sign to proceed with caution.
- "we should take a break""We should take a break" literally means the sender needs temporary distance from the relationship or dynamic you share.
- "haha"Haha literally means 'laugh out loud' or indicates amusement, often a casual or soft chuckle rather than a belly laugh.
- "k.""k." is an abbreviation of "okay" or "ok," signifying agreement, acknowledgement, or that a message has been read.
- "...""..." literally signifies an ellipsis, indicating omitted words or a pause, often implying something more is left unsaid.
Emoji
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- 💀💀 literally means a skull, but digitally it expresses extreme amusement or embarrassment.
- 🥀🥀 literally means a wilted or faded rose, symbolizing decay, loss, or something past its prime.
- 😭😭 is literally a face loudly crying with tears streaming down its face.
- ❤️❤️ is a red heart emoji, literally representing love, affection, or strong positive feelings.
- 🙃The upside-down smiley face 🙃 literally means smiling with your head inverted, but it's used to convey irony, sarcasm, or silliness.
- The emoji, also known as the 'face with bags under eyes,' literally represents a tired or sleepy face.
- 🫠🫠 literally means a melting face, symbolizing extreme heat or embarrassment.
- 😮💨😮💨 literally means an exhaling face, signifying relief, exhaustion, or a feeling of being overwhelmed.
- ✨The '✨' emoji literally represents sparkles, often indicating something new, clean, magical, or aesthetically pleasing.
- 👀The 👀 emoji literally means looking or seeing, often implying observation, curiosity, or a prompt for more information.
- 🥲The smiling face with tear emoji literally means 'happy tear' or 'grateful tear,' representing a mix of emotions.
- 🤡A clown emoji literally depicts a circus clown, often used to symbolize foolishness, silliness, or feeling ridiculous.
- 🙂The '🙂' emoji depicts a yellow face with simple, open eyes and a slight, closed smile, indicating mild happiness or approval.
- 🤍The white heart emoji (🤍) literally represents purity, innocence, and strong, unconditional love, often associated with a clean or wholesome feeling.
- 👍👍 literally means 'good' or 'okay,' representing approval, agreement, or confirmation of received information.
- 🥺The Pleading Face emoji depicts a face with large, puppy-dog eyes, often used to convey begging or a soft, endearing plea.
- 😏"😏" literally means a smirk, suggesting slyness, confidence, or suggestive intent.
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