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What to text back when your boss says « Going forward, please run these by me first. »

Already decoded. Here's what they actually meant, the specific words doing the damage, and three replies ranked by what we'd send.

Boss

Going forward, please run these by me first.

Setting a hard ruleReclaiming control

What they actually meant

You made a call without them and it bruised their ego or made them feel out of the loop. They aren't firing you, but they want to reassert that they're the boss.

How loaded this is · loaded

Replies you can send

Keep it calm

We'd send this one

Will do, my bad. I'll make sure you see them first next time.

Hold your ground

Understood. The turnaround was super tight on this one, but I'll loop you in earlier next time.

Change the game

Got it, will do. Do you want to review the current one now or go over it tomorrow?

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