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What to text back when your situationship says « why do we have to label it »
Already decoded. Here's what they actually meant, the specific words doing the damage, and three replies ranked by what we'd send.
why do we have to label it
What they actually meant
The question isn't really a question. Labels only feel unnecessary to the person who's already getting what they want from the arrangement. You asked for clarity and got a philosophy debate instead.
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Replies you can send
Keep it calm
we don't have to. i just want to know what we're doing
Hold your ground
We'd send this onewe don't. but i need to know if you're seeing other people, and that's a yes or no
Change the game
forget the label. are we exclusive or not
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