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To: Bestie

How to say no to plans over text

What's going on

You're exhausted and you know that if you go, you'll resent it the whole time.

What you want

Turn down plans without inventing an excuse or over-apologising.

What you'd normally type

i'm so so sorry i feel terrible but i think i might have to bail?? i'm the worst i know, please don't hate me

Bestie

i'm going to sit this one out, i'm running on empty. have fun and tell me everything. next one's on me

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