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To: Bestie

How to tell a friend they hurt you over text

What's going on

Something they said stuck with you for days and pretending it didn't is making things weird.

What you want

Tell a close friend they hurt you without starting a fight.

What you'd normally type

so this is probably stupid and i'm sure you didn't mean it but that thing you said kind of bothered me? sorry, ignore me

Bestie

what you said on friday stuck with me more than i expected. i don't think you meant it that way, but i wanted you to know

What to send instead
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