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What to text back when your friend says « i'm always the one making plans »
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i'm always the one making plans
What they actually meant
This is a fair complaint most of the time. They're tired of being the organiser and they want the effort to be mutual. The fastest fix is doing it rather than explaining.
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Keep it calm
you are, and i appreciate it more than i say
Hold your ground
that's fair. i'm bad at planning, not uninterested
Change the game
We'd send this oneyou're right. i'm planning the next one, keep saturday free
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