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What to text back when your friend says « didn't know i wasn't invited »
Already decoded. Here's what they actually meant, the specific words doing the damage, and three replies ranked by what we'd send.
didn't know i wasn't invited
What they actually meant
They saw the photos. This is hurt with a shrug on it, and the shrug is there so they don't have to admit how much it stung. Don't over-explain, just acknowledge it.
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Replies you can send
Keep it calm
We'd send this onethat was a bad call on my part, i'm sorry. it wasn't deliberate
Hold your ground
it was a last-minute thing, not a snub. i get why it looked bad
Change the game
you're coming to the next one, no question. free friday?
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