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What to text back when your ex says « can we talk »
Already decoded. Here's what they actually meant, the specific words doing the damage, and three replies ranked by what we'd send.
Ex
can we talk
Vague on purpose
What they actually meant
Three words with no subject, which is why your stomach dropped. It could be closure, logistics, or wanting you back. You're allowed to ask what it's about before you agree to anything.
How loaded this is · loaded
Replies you can send
Keep it calm
sure. what's it about?
Hold your ground
We'd send this onedepends what about. tell me here first
Change the game
if it's about us, i'm not there yet
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