From: Roommate
What to text back when your roommate says « i'm not mad, just wondering »
Already decoded. Here's what they actually meant, the specific words doing the damage, and three replies ranked by what we'd send.
Roommate
i'm not mad, just wondering
Denying the mood
What they actually meant
People who aren't mad don't usually announce it. They're irritated and trying to keep things civil, which is worth something. Answer the question and skip the mood.
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Replies you can send
Keep it calm
We'd send this onetotally fair to ask. here's what happened
Hold your ground
if you are a bit mad that's ok, i'd rather deal with it now
Change the game
let's just talk about it in person tonight
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