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What to text back when your situationship says « i've been hanging out with someone but it's nothing »

Already decoded. Here's what they actually meant, the specific words doing the damage, and three replies ranked by what we'd send.

Situationship

i've been hanging out with someone but it's nothing

Softening itDownplaying it

What they actually meant

They told you because they'd rather you hear it from them. Calling it nothing is meant to keep you calm, not to describe reality. This is the moment to find out what you actually are.

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Replies you can send

Keep it calm

thanks for telling me. i need a minute to sit with it

Hold your ground

We'd send this one

if it's nothing, then we're exclusive. is that where you are?

Change the game

then i'm going to see other people too, and we can call it even

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