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What to text back when your ex says « i was going through something back then »
Already decoded. Here's what they actually meant, the specific words doing the damage, and three replies ranked by what we'd send.
i was going through something back then
What they actually meant
An explanation, not an apology, and the difference matters. Context can be true and still not undo what it cost you. Notice whether the word sorry ever shows up.
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Replies you can send
Keep it calm
i know you were. it was hard for both of us
Hold your ground
We'd send this onei believe you. it still hurt, and that's the part i needed you to say
Change the game
ok. what are you actually asking me for?
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