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What to text back when your ex says « i'm not the same person i was »
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i'm not the same person i was
What they actually meant
Maybe true. It's also the standard opening move for a second attempt. Change shows up as different behaviour over months, not as a sentence sent at night.
How loaded this is · not in your head
Replies you can send
Keep it calm
i'm glad to hear that, genuinely
Hold your ground
We'd send this onei hope that's true. i'm still not looking to try again
Change the game
what's actually different? i'd want specifics before anything else
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