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What to text back when your ex says « you changed »
Already decoded. Here's what they actually meant, the specific words doing the damage, and three replies ranked by what we'd send.
Ex
you changed
Judgment with no specifics
What they actually meant
Usually said when someone stopped getting the version of you that was convenient for them. Growth reads as betrayal to whoever liked the old arrangement. Two words, no specifics, all judgment.
How loaded this is · not in your head
Replies you can send
Keep it calm
maybe i did. people do
Hold your ground
We'd send this onei did. i'm not going back to who i was for you
Change the game
changed how? be specific or let it go
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